Social Anxiety, Wooden wick soy wax, anxiety relief candle, self care, self acceptance, self care, self love, stay home, luxury candle

$13.60 $16.00

Shipping to United States: $9.00

Social Anxiety- Calm and confidence to comfortably be in a group or say no to social events with ease.

Those moments when you feel pressured or compelled to give people access to you. You DO NOT have to go, invite people in or be in situations that aren't your vibe. Everyone doesn't deserve access to you and "No." is a complete sentence, you are free to say it.

This candle can be used for so many situations, it is a warm blend of soft cashmere, amber, vanilla and light woody musk to wrap around you like that perfect oversized sweater you have.

Associate this scent with the empowering process of just saying "no, thank you". Helpful in those situations where you usually make an excuse because you can't bear the thought of being around others or at that place or for that long. It's ok, you don't always have to be available and you don't have to keep a list of excuses at the ready.
This blend also calms and gathers your emotions to allow you to feel relaxed enough to enjoy yourself in complicated situations.

These scents when combined are wonderful for being the silent friend who gives you the love and confidence you need to lean in to the difficult times, times you learn that being able to be alone is priceless.

Once you've let your mind make associates between this scent and those moments of calm and turning inward, you can use this scent for a quick calm down and centering during those times that you feel stressed or pressured about going out or while you are formulating our perfect list of excuses instead of just saying no. You can learn to love staying in with yourself until those moments that you truly want to be in a group.

Poured in a vintage inspired amber glass jar, tint free, with a sexy matte black lid and a happy little label. Part of our "Un-Medicine Cabinet" candle line up targeted at self care without all the thinking and planning.

NOTES

Top - Cashmere, Amber
Middle - Vanilla, Musk
Dry - Wood


Volume-
Our Pint Mason jar selections hold 12 + ounces of candle Half Pint Mason Jar selections hold 7.5 + oz of candle
Our Amber jar selections hold 8 oz of candle
Specialty vessels will have their volume in each listing.

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Our wooden wick candles are NOT ASSOCIATED with Newell Brands Inc. and its subsidiaries, including the WOODWICK(R) brand.
We proudly use Lumentique patented wicks from The Wooden Wick, Co. exclusively in the making of our candles.
“Lumetique Wooden Wick Technology” means all patents, patent applications, know-how and trade secrets relating to wooden wicks owned or controlled by Lumetique, Inc. including, without limitation, such technology covered by claims included in U.S. Design Patents Nos. US D644,359, US D643,554, US D644,360, US D678,558, US D705,459

🏥⚕️Always seek the guidance of your doctor or other qualified health professional with any questions you may have regarding your health or a medical condition. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional, or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this Website. Our products are intended for Aromatherapy only and should not used in place of your healthcare providers therapies or advice.⚕️🏥

Shipping from United States

Processing time

1 business day

Customs and import taxes

Buyers are responsible for any customs and import taxes that may apply. I'm not responsible for delays due to customs.

Payment Options

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  • Accepts Etsy gift cards

Returns & Exchanges

I gladly accept returns and cancellations

Just contact me within: 3 days of delivery

Ship items back to me within: 7 days of delivery

Request a cancellation within: 1 hours of purchase

I don't accept exchanges

But please contact me if you have any problems with your order.

The following items can't be returned or exchanged

Because of the nature of these items, unless they arrive damaged or defective, I can't accept returns for:

  • Custom or personalized orders
  • Perishable products (like food or flowers)
  • Intimate items (for health/hygiene reasons)
  • Items on sale

Conditions of return

Buyers are responsible for return shipping costs. If the item is not returned in its original condition, the buyer is responsible for any loss in value.

Privacy policy

Information Sharing and Disclosure

Information about my customers is important to my business. I share your personal information for very limited reasons and in limited circumstances, as follows:

Etsy. I share information with Etsy as necessary to provide you my services and comply with my obligations under both the Etsy Seller Policy and Etsy Terms of Use.
Service providers. I engage certain trusted third parties to perform functions and provide services to my shop, such as delivery companies. I will share your personal information with these third parties, but only to the extent necessary to perform these services.
Business transfers. If I sell or merge my business, I may disclose your information as part of that transaction, only to the extent permitted by law.
Compliance with laws. I may collect, use, retain, and share your information if I have a good faith belief that it is reasonably necessary to: (a) respond to legal process or to government requests; (b) enforce my agreements, terms and policies; (c) prevent, investigate, and address fraud and other illegal activity, security, or technical issues; or (d) protect the rights, property, and safety of my customers, or others.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I trim and light my wooden wick?

Check out our blog for care and burning tips
www.teresalynns.com/blog

If lighting seems difficult, the wick is too far above the surface of the wax when the candle is initially lit. Always light at the wax level, not the top of the wick.

 Solution: Make sure the wick is trimmed to be no longer than 1/8” – 3/16” / 6.4mm – 4.8mm above the wax. This seems counterintuitive, as we think a longer wick will make a larger flame, but it will not. The longer the wick, the harder it is for the wax to flow up to the top.
(The Wooden Wick patented wood wick company).

Wholesale availability

Bulk orders of more than 20 candles (or more than we have in inventory for a particular scent) require a 2 week process time.

Bulk orders of 20 or more mixed and matched from current inventory will be processed in our current processing time (usually 1-3 days).

We will set up a custom listing for your purchase with calculated shipping and a 20% discount.

We do not offer custom labels for wholesale but do offer unlabeled for 20 or more or a single scent.

Orders of less than 20 candles do not meet our wholesale qualifications, are limited to selections currently available in our inventory, receive whatever our current sale (if any) discount is and a flat rate of $9 shipping for the entire order.

Shipping costs

Everyone gets a deal on shipping with our all for one shipping cost of $9.00! Whether you purchase 1 or 1001 items your cost doesn't change!

Are Soy Candles Safe?

Now let’s talk about wax. Unless you are eating your candles (which you shouldn’t be) you don’t need to worry about them being produced with “Organic Soy wax”. This is good because organic soy wax doesn’t exist.

The process of converting the oil into a wax itself renders the wax ineligible for organic certification. Even if a manufacture used the 5-9% of soybeans grown in the USA that are Organic Bean, the process itself makes them not organic.
Should you worry about this? The simple answer is no, soy wax is safe. You should worry about a company that claims their soy candles are organic. We use wax made with only Renewable Midwest Grown Soybeans.

We use only phthalate free fragrance oils and essential oil blends in our products.

Return policy

We accept returns for our WAX items only.

**In order to remain FDA Compliant we cannot accept returns on our Skincare or Hygiene items (for health/hygiene reasons).**

Buyer will message us within 3 days of delivery, return the wax item(s) to us insured with tracking in the same manner of packaging it was received.

When the item is received by us in:
🌟New, unused condition
🌟Within the 7 day ship window
🌟We will refund the original amount of the item minus 10% for listing and transaction fees we incur.

Original shipping costs are non-refundable.

Buyer is responsible for the cost of return with insured and tracked postage.

We will not process returns/refunds on unauthorized, refused or return to sender parcels.

What do I do if my item is received damaged or is lost in transit?

We are happy to assist you with filing a claim with USPS if you received a damaged item or your package is lost.

FILING CLAIMS FOR DAMAGES is now the responsibility of the customer as USPS has changed their policies and requires the BUYER to present the damaged package along with proof of payment from your financial institute (all things we do not have).

Note: You must create an account with the USPS if you don’t already have one.

***When filing a claim with USPS, the damaged article, container, packaging, and any other items received must be presented to the Postal Service for inspection along with proof of payment from your financial institution. Be certain to safely save the entire box, label and all the contents.**

Return to Sender packages

Packages received back to us as RTS (Return to Sender) may be resent at your request by purchasing a postage listing customized for your parcel and verified address.

We are not responsible for invalid addresses, forwarded mail or refused parcels and will not refund or pay return shipping.

Return postage will be calculated at our actual cost, not the discounted rate of $9.00 we offer on original purchases.

We will contact you via messages with a link to the shipping listing which will be active for 100 days.

After the 100 day period the listing will expire and the parcel contents will be donated to a local charity when appropriate.

Summer Lotion Shipping

Please see our heat advisory at the beginning of each listing as high temps (80 degrees +) can cause melting, settling(may appear less full) and thinning of lotions. Please only purchase if this is a risk you are willing to take. We do have express shipping offered to help prevent heat damage in shipping.

Reviews (8)

Average:

I order from this shop all the time, and am a loyal and returning customer. Great product and great service. Theresa always puts nice touches on the packaging.




This is one of my favorite scents. I’ve bought some other candles and love listening to the crackle of the wick when I’m reading or have quiet time. Thank you!



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